Do you have people in your life that just don't seem to go away no matter how hard you try?!?
I do!..That person is Big Man's ex-girlfriend!
Just like any good girlfriend I am protective over my man, especially when it comes to ex-girlfriends. I don't mind if Big Man has female friends cause I equally have male friends but when it comes to this bitch, my blood begins to boil.
You see I never met this girl and I have no intentions to but this girls actions are truly pathetic. Let me give you a little run down of the shit I've had to deal with over the last 2 1/2 years with what we'll call Desperate J (DJ).
- Our first Christmas together, I'm at work and Big Man is over at his Mom's old house...and who decides to show up but DJ with presents for Big Man's little sisters. Let's do some math here, the little sisters who I bathe and play with on a almost daily basis (we all live together now) were 5 & 2 years of age at that Christmas, then minus the 1 1/2 that they broke up which equals the oldest being 3 1/2-4 and barely remembering you and the youngest who was practically fresh out the cooch who doesn't even give a shit about who you are..even his mom was like WTF is she here for. Big Man told me immediately when he came to pick me up and it's not to say I wasn't pissed but I wasn't going to let her ruin my Christmas
- Mother's Day- We head over again to Big Man's mom house and what to we see...flowers and a card laying in front of the door for his Mama from DJ. She must have came over expecting someone (Big Man) to open the door and let her in but she was surprised when no one did...again all of us are like WTF...weirdo. And we go upon enjoying our holiday again. (It will be funny tho if she goes to the old house this year and surprise we don't live there anymore and is greeted by strangers..haha)
- 1st text message...I don't remember what it said but I was pissed
- 2nd text message (about 8-9 months later)- Text saying that God has kept him (BM) in her spirit and that she wanted to mend their friendship and not burn bridges bullshit...after that I started getting so fucking pissed. I told Big Man that he better text her and tell her to stop contacting him or he has to change his number. He text her ( I sat there & watched) and told her to leave him the fuck alone...she messaged back saying ok, and she understood.
- Well this bitch must be slow in the head cause Big Man gets another text yesterday from her. Mind you again this is like a year after the last message. I can tell by the look on his face that something was wrong when he picks me up from work. I ask him what's up and he hands me his phone. The first words out of my mouth are "BITTTCCHHH". She again is messaging him about how he is doing and burning bridges blah blah blah. Big Man then called his mom and asked what he should do since this broad is obviously dumb and doesn't know how to read. She tells him to send a message to say everything is fine and to not contact him. She then goes on to send another text and I quote "If your not still mad maybe we can link up sometime and catch up if that's alright with your wife (me)" Are you out of your fucking mind?!?! Seriously is it just me or is this girl just insane.
HE DOESN'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU...IT'S BEEN 5 YEARS, GET OVER IT!!!
I know what she is trying to do. She's trying to piss me off by sending them thinking that I'm gonna fight with Big Man about it and were gonna break up and she's gonna scoop him up...
WRONG BITCH!
Your only making yourself look pathetic and dumb.
Big Man and I are rounding 3 years strong, if he wanted you he would have already left me. He told me all the nasty things you did (she was an asshole to him) and I know that he would never take your nasty ass back. This chick is also one of the aspiring "model" MySpace hoes. You know the ones who get "professional" pictures done where they're only wearing a see-thru sarong and nothing else (bet your momma's really proud) and have dreams of being the next video ho. Yeah that's her. The girl truly is pathetic and I almost (not really) feel sorry her.
But show up at the new house and try starting some shit and this is what we'll happen:
I will pull that wack ass weave out track by track! : ) ***
Anyways on to some lighter and less angry and profanity strewn news..
While looking up "fight" pictures to post I came across this:
A VERY Gangsta Baby...too funny! :)***
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20 comments:
Oh goodness!! Too much drama.... so sorry you have to put up with that! That's so not cool!!
Love the gangster baby... how funny!
And congrats on yet another award!
I always seem to have the same thing happen to me with exes. Good luck.....
Wow, she sounds absolutely ridiculous! My husband also has a pretty ridiculous ex, though she doesn't try to contact him anymore. Crazy!
Also, I think that baby is from this commercial that I saw on one of those "funniest commercial" shows. I don't remember what it was for though.
Does this chick not realise that he's obviously happy?! WITHOUT HER!! I don't know how you deal. I would be pissed at her too. It's great that you're not fighting with him about it though. It isn't his fault she's so dumb!!
Hope your weekend finishes drama free!!
Ugh, that sucks! I just don't understand why some exes just can't GET IT that it's OVER! She better stop messing with you, but if you take her it sure would make a good story for the blog! :-P
You saw my post that I wrote like last week, right? I TOTALLY know you feel. I've more than a few girls do the same stuff that this girl has done and it is amazingly pathetic. I don't understand why they just don't seem to get it! Ugh, they make me so angry!
Kudos to you for dealing with it the way you have. You're a strong woman and Big Man loves you!
I hate beezies like that! So annoying, how dumb are you, get the hint and LEAVE.
To be the devil's advocate here, maybe she misses her friend. I'm friend's with all of my exes. One ex I go out for beers with the odd time and have my hubby pick us up and drive him home.
Now, I'm not crazy nor are my exes so perhaps it's different.
My advice, don't let her bother you. If she wants to waste money on BG and his family, let her. You've got the ultimate prize she'll never get. Don't let her get to you :)
Ugh I hate it when exes won't go away. Woman is crazy. I give you a lot of credit for putting it up with it. I would not be able to for long
"the youngest who was practically fresh out the cooch" hahaha. I think I shot soda out of my nose. That's flippin' hilarious!
Hmmm. If you need help "visiting" with DJ, let me know. :)
Congrats on an Adorable Blog...and thanks for passing on the love! You're definitely a Poodle!
haha first off! i'd be JUST as mad! It's like she thinks she's being nice but deep down she's just being sneaky! eww hubs ex used to text/call randomly and that FINALLY stopped! I was so afraid she was going to key my car or something one night when I would stay at his house! You guys will be fine though. Honestly it got the point where I took hubs phone, texted her back and said... hi, this is ***, he obviously doesn't want to talk to you bc I'm pretty sure he would have texted/ called you back by now... so could you please leave us alone. She wrote back saying, this has nothing to do with you, i need to talk to "hubs"... I said umm yeah when it comes to you, it has EVERYTHING to do with me :-)
Who do these girls think they are? lol
And that baby is adorable!
Good luck with everything! You guys are doing the right thing! I know it's tough but just knowing that he's had plenty of opportunities to leave and hasn't should mean the world!
Oh no she didn't. I have some ex tales myself...if misery wants company, e-mail me and I'll tell you all about it. Urgh. I hate those types of girls, yes, girls.
LOL... brush it off mama..
don't let it get to you.. she's just being silly and he's being a very good man by telling you instead of keeping it from you.
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how frustrating! i can't believe she shows up with gifts for his family! crazy - she really needs to move on already!
thank you so much for the award! i'm addicted to your blog, too!
Haha I know someone like that, but he won't leave me alone. I guess constant ignoring isn't a big enough hint. I feel your pain.
Thank you so much!!
I can't even BEGIN to describe how I feel your pain in the ass! (Unfortunately, my nightmare WAS the boyfriend's ex-sister-in-law that was always trying to move in on her own sister's husband...even when they were married! (Insert expletive, derogatory term here).
Anyway, being the good girl I am...I got rid of her. I knew her as a friend first, but then had enough. I put my foot down & told her to F off. I told her to never contact either one of us again. The BF backed me up on my wishes for her to go away.
A year later, NO ONE hears from her anymore & ALL of her "friends" have thanked me for making her stay away because no one could stand her!
Your time will come too! Let her show up at your new house & YOU answer the door! HAHAHAHAHA!
Girl I have your back if you need me ;p
If it keeps up he needs to change his number. What a bitch! Some people just can't understand you don't want to talk to them..hello they are "EX" for a reason!
Oh my!
Maybe you need to send her a text message. Nicely and all, but just make it clear that you are NOT cool with it. ( Kill em' with kindness, the whole point of what she's doing might just be to get you riled up like this.. So don't let her).
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